First: Patience
Second: Everything is harder.
Third: No control over the conditions.
Finally: Have to relax and think differently.
But seek the welfare of the city where I have sent you into exile,
and pray to the Lord on its behalf,
for in its welfare you will find
your welfare.
Jeremiah 29:7 New Revised Standard Version (NRSV)
For I know the plans I have
for you, says the Lord,
plans for welfare and not for evil,
to give you a future and a hope.
Jeremiah 29:11 (NRSV)